"No matter how people try to dispute it, perception is reality. Its what you choose to believe that makes you the person you are." -Karen Marie Moning

There are times when people are confused and scared and there are times when they are happy and unstoppable. But it takes only a few seconds, that one moment to change your world and your life forever. It can be a fall, a flood, a blast, a birth, a wedding, or a better job.

But the funny thing is, these moments that change our life; we can’t categorize them into good or bad. If a birth, a wedding or a better job can change someone’s life for good, a bad boss, un-cooperative colleagues, or an oppressive family can change his life for the worse. And just like that a blast or a flood can make one realize that life is too short to be spent sulking and complaining, just like it can leave someone else completely devastated.

I guess what I’m trying to say is that no situation can be compartmentalized in to good or bad because its not about what it is but what you seek out of it; that’s important.